A few New Efforts

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Well, it is the season of festivities and rejoicing. The year went by in the blink of an eye. It was only a few moments ago when I was just a fresher in the college and now an entire year is almost completing itself(not the academic one, of course)!

 Also, this time of the season rejuvenates our spirits and instills in it a new enthusiasm about how our new year is going to be; at least according to our expectations. The reality is quite far from what we expect it to be, but that's just what life is-UNPREDICTABLE. And in name of these expectations we set our "new year's resolutions". Well, like all of you, I myself have taken a few new resolves for me but I like to call them my NEW YEAR'S EFFORTS.It is not going to something huge or seemingly impossible but a few little efforts that I plan to make so that I have more peace than I had in the year passing by.
First and foremost, Fuck what they think! This is what I always preach and promote and always follow. No matter who it is, no matter what they mean to you; if they do not like you for who you are, LET THEM GO. Well same for me. My originality is more important to me than anyone else being or not being with me, because in the end we all find someone who loves our flaws. Also I plan on not to ask someone to stay or to leave. People come and go and it is not my responsibility to cling to them because the important ones always find a reason to stay. 

 Another thing is to meet more people, explore more, learn more and be much more involved with myself as compared to others. Be more benevolent, understand others better and stay as far away from idiots as possible. I myself should be the reason for my happiness and nothing and no one around me should change what goes inside me. To live in such a way that the phrase "GOOD VIBES ONLY" is not a mere Twitter hashtag or an Instagram caption but where I'm actually capable of experiencing and letting out only good vibes.
I'm very thankful to all those who left and to all those who came to me in 2018. I wish that goners stay gone and the ones who are new stay put. 

 As I said, I don't plan on doing humongous tasks or achieving impossible feats, I just want to grow each and every day and that is what all of us should aspire to do, too. We don't have no competition except for the person we see when standing in front of a mirror. That is who you should plan to defeat every passing day.

All I wish to have is a peaceful new year and hope you have the same too.

 Till next time-Get better. Eat better. Live better. Stay insouciant no matter what. Smile more. Cry more. Experience life. Expect less. Be more realistic. 

 Peace Out!

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